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Getting “Me Time” with Kids
If you’re a parent struggling with feeling life yourself after brining a child into your life, I encourage you to make your own list of 5 things that bring you joy (outside of family time). Then discuss with your partner how he/she can help you get that time. It’s brought me so much joy and peace. I hope you can get that too.
Our Family’s Nighttime Routine
Managing my energy level has been one of my biggest struggles as a mother of three. I’ve never been a “happy” early riser despite my children’s jubilance in the AM.
Are You Struggling With Resentment?
Words of affirmation are my love language.
When Ryan comes home after work, I want him to notice all that I’ve done in my day—often without me saying anything.
Happy Loving Day
June 12 is a special day that I don't think most people notice. It's the day that it became legal for a girl like me to marry a guy like Ryan.
Do You Believe in Soulmates?
I didn’t marry Mr. Right. Ryan didn’t marry Mrs. Right, either. There is NO SUCH THING.
You Are Your Child’s Gift
You are the perfect mother for your child. You were given to him, not the other way around. I had to repeat this to myself as a first time mom.
15 At-Home Date Night Ideas
Would you consider taking on a 15 Date Challenge? If you’re like me and my husband, you’re busy, you often “miss” your partner and you think you’ll find time for a date later. Well later keeps getting pushed back.
Goodbye 2020, Hello 2021
I don't know what 2020 meant for you, but it caught me off guard. Our family experienced many blessings (bought a house & a third pregnancy). We also experienced difficulties (moving across country, catching COVID, a few pregnancy scares, and my infamous burn).
Moms, Read When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed
No matter how badly you wanted this child or how deeply you love him, you're allowed to admit being a mother is more than you expected. You're allowed to admit how lonely you feel even when you're surrounded by amazing support.
When You Use Deployment Against Your Spouse
Today is the last day I use Ryan’s deployment against him in order to win an argument. It’s a low blow and that’s not how I want to get through our marriage anymore.
2020 His/Her Holiday Gift Guide
If we need anything this year, it’s a little extra cheer. I know we all can share a mountainous list of how 2020 has disappointed. Let’s take back as much of the gloom this holiday season
Guest Writer’s Series: Crushing the ‘Woe is Me’ Mindset as a Military Spouse
Military life is tough at times, for me dealing with the emotional aspect of doing life SOLO is one of the most complicated things to sort through.
How to Handle the PCS Blues
There is this side to military life that isn’t talked about often. It’s the “how are you doing” after the dust of a big move settles. How do you handle life after a big change.
Embracing Your Natural Hair
I grew up embarrassed by my hair. I grew up believing “good hair” was straight hair. My big hair made me stand out among my friends in suburban Ohio. I hated the “you have so much hair” comments.
The Uncomfortable Conversation
I remember being afraid to meet Ryan’s family. Will they be shocked to see his black girlfriend? Or did he warn them ahead of time?
Cross Country Road Trip with Kids Pt. One
In January, my family moved from California to North Carolina. We opted for a LONNNGGG family road trip to get to our new state. It was an experience & I'm telling all about it in a two part blog series.
Homecoming Truths (what to expect after deployment with kids)
If you’re curious about what it’s like having your husband home after being gone for 6 months...I’m listing it out for you.
Or if you’re a military spouse like me who wants a laugh because with get it...read along.
It's Time to Pack Up (military style)
Now Ryan's back and we have a move to plan. I'm all the feels about leaving California to move to North Carolina.
Being A Military Spouse
Love allows me to endure the hardships. Love allows me to keep putting myself out there. Love allows me to be strong.